I hope this article will help men realize how important it is to keep their girlfriends happy. I don't claim these tips as very effective but at least this would be a great guide for keeping your relationship happy and healthy...so READ ON..let the LOVE begin..
TIPS TO KEEP YOUR GIRLFRIEND HAPPY
1. Be loyal to her
The relationship becomes harmonious if you are loyal and honest to your girlfriend. Being loyal means remembering you have a partner who love's you when you are getting attracted. Do not attempt to cheat on your girlfried, try to DISCUSS whatever misunderstanding nad issues you both have. Nothing can't be resolved without talking.
2. Say sorry
Don't hesitate to say sorry. this would just show your humbleness and love for her to accept the wrong thing you have done. Do not say "I am sorry that I hurt you" it shows arrogance, but instead say "I'm sorry I shouldn't have done it so"..this show you are really apologetic and accepts the fact that indeed you have done your girlfriend wrong.
These 3 magic words would always give the feeling that your girlfriend is always loved.BUT don't just say it just for the sake of saying it. Make her feel that you love her by holding her hands and gently pressing it, look into her eyes and tell her how much you love and care for her. Yeah, I know its kinda cheesy but sometimes we should do it just to show our deep feelings for our partner. right?
4. Call her back
If you told her you'd be calling her back, make sure to call back. It doesn't take an hour for you to pick up the phone just to ask her if she had eaten her dinner, if how was her day. At least take time to call her once a day even for 5 mins. just to check on her or just to say you miss her and that you care.
5. Send her sweet text messages
Make use of technology. If you can't call her up, text her a sweet message.This would show that even if it's a busy day you take time to let her know that she is on your mind missing her..
6. Share things with her
It's good to share things that happened to you on a day.Share to her something about your past, your life and things you are doing before you met her. It's good to tell her before she gets to know it from other source. Introduce her to your friends,tell how you exactly feel on that very moment, ask her what shirt would look good on you etc. by doing this you are building a good bridge instead of gaps in you relationship. It's showing her that you are open for any questions your girlfriend might have in mind.
7. Spend time with her
You're girlfriend wil always appreciate the time you spent with her even if it just for 30 mins if it is a quality time. A relationship will work if you give it time. At least always make your date as if it is your first date, do things that will make memorable not just for you but specially for your girlfriend.
8. Give her some space
Let your girlfriend spend time with her friends, give her breathing space to enjoy herself, people she want's to spend with (family, friends). A little space will give her time to miss you.
9. Respect her decisions
Give respect so that others will respect you back. If you're girlfriend is going thru a difficult time, tell her not to worry and be there for her. Make her feel that you are there for her can make her feel better.
10. Public display of affection
Do not hesitate to hold her hand in public while walking, Put your hands in her shoulder BUT avoid kissing in public (I'm referring to lip locking) you might get some rude reactions and raised eyebrows.
11. Compliment her
Do not hesitate to give her some compliments, tell her you like her smile or complement on nice things you noticed on her. AGAIN, do not just say compliment because you are obliged to give compliment. Mean it when you say it.
12. Drop love notes and letters
Every girls/ladies would want to receive a love letter. So try to give her some love notes or give her a love letter. I'm sure your girlfriend will love it and will appreciate it most!
13. Surprise her with gifts
Surprise your girlfriend by giving her flowers, giving her icecream, treating her out to dinner. This is also a way of putting something new or giving excitement to your relationship. and REMEMBER, girlfriends like GOOD surprises.
14. Make her laugh
It is sometimes one way of making your relationship happy. And this will truly make your bond with your girlfriend stronger, more open and less inhibitions.
I got some source of this Tips from www.indiaparenting.com
Happy Valentines
xoxo -->ht
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