Tuesday, February 9, 2010

HOW TO KEEP YOUR BOYFRIEND HAPPY

LOVE is in the AIR..yup! sure it is and 6 days to go before Valentines day..

Well this blog would be connected to the previous blog I posted.If we have tips on how to keep our girlfriends happy, there will also be for men..SO ladies, read on. Hope some of the tips you'll read here will help you keep your man..for life

HOW TO KEEP YOUR BOYFRIEND HAPPY

1. COMPLIMENT HIM
            Hey ladies! it's not just us who wants to be flourished with sweet and nice things. Men would also love their girl to appreciate nice things from him, so go ahead and shower him with anything nice.Make sure that its true and as what I said on the other blog..Mean it when you say it.

2. COOK FOR HIM
            Yes!..cook for him, as the saying goes " A way to a man's heart is through his stomach" and it does work. Though I haven't tried it personally hehe. You don't have to be an expert in cooking but try preparing something delicious that he'll sure love, not just the food but you too as well.

3. RESPECT HIM
          Its a 2 way process, if you want him to respect you, you should also return the respect he gave you. Show appreciation and give consideration to his beliefs.

4. DO NOT BE A NAG
           Do not try to change him. Remember before you became a couple you have accepted him as what he is. If  later you discovered something in his character that you dislike, at least try to talk it over with him BUT DO NOT force him to change. Change should come from the person itself not because you obliged him to.

5. BE AN OPEN BOOK
           You don't need to tell him everything but its better if whatever you have in the past you will share it with him. REMEMBER it is better if he hears it from you straight rather than hearing it from someone else.Do not keep secrets let him know the flaws and the nice things that happened to your life. by doing that he will understand you more

6. SUPPORT HIM
             In a relationship both you and your partner are incomplete and the reason you became a couple its because you fill the things that one is incapable of but it does not mean that you have to be dependent. So, if your boyfriend is into something or in a position to make decision support him. By doing so, you will help him succeed his task knowing that you will be there for your boyfriend to support him. If  he is playing with a team cheer for him that would show how much you support him.

7. DO NOT BE OVERPOSSESSIVE
             Being envious would be a no no for guys. If you see him talking to another girl, you don't need to fret and punish him for talking to someone else. Avoid being too suspicious, avoid being too clingy. You might be starting a petty quarrel over some unimportant stuff. Respect your man and give him some space.

8. SHOWER HIM WITH LOVE AND AFFECTION
             Hey ladies!..it is not just us who wants to be complimented. We should also be very appreciative of our partner.They too need our hugs and kisses and constant I LOVE YOU's. Occasionally give him gifts, love letter or something that is sweet.

Hope you learned something from this tips. and hope you will have a great and fun relationship

NOTE: some source are from www.indiaparenting.com

Happy Valentines
xoxo-->ht

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